It’s almost the end of the year and God knows that it’s not the most relaxing time… In between family gatherings, parties mixed with work and keeping up with the laundry. But it’s finally time to leave all of this behind you and enter a new era.
The selfish ERA. Yes! You heard me just right!
Be selfish with you, start showing up for yourself, protect your peace, set boundaries, say no when you need to.
Love yourself and make your happiness a priority.
It’s 2023 baby!
with that SAID, HERE'S A LITTLE SELFISH GUIDE TO PLAN YOUR MOST SUCCESSFUL YEAR;
Take a moment to think about 2022:
What lessons did you learn in 2022?
3 Highlights of 2022;
Who felt like a safe space to you in 2022?
Let it go!
I suggest you take a pen and paper and you write down keywords that represent any negative emotion that you felt in 2022. Once it’s done, you burn that piece of paper or you throw it in the garbage. Take whatever lessons you learned from it but let the pain and emotions go.
Define your inner SELFISH
What are your values?
What are your strengths and weaknesses?
What are you passionate about?
You must answer these questions with your heart open. / Knowing yourself is a MUST to setting goals that resonate with your soul.
Create a VISION BOARD
It’s not only about visually pleasing images, vision boards help attract what you want into your life. and I promise you, IT WORKS!
Here’s a few thing you can reflect about and add on your Vision Board:
Dream lifestyle / a perfect day in your selfish girl life
Dream home/apartment
Motivational Quotes that resonate with you
Dream Career / Job
Hobbies that makes you forget about time
Inspiring Role Models
Health & Fitness
Financial goal
Step out of your comfort zone
Questions to Ask Yourself:
What’s something outside of my comfort zone?
Do you let fear hold you back from pursuing your dreams?
How should I challenge myself this year?
It’s time to be SELFISH and set yourself up for success with GOAL SETTING
Write down at least 1 goal per category:
Personal
Career & Business
Relationships
Education & Skills
Financial
Health & Fitness
Hobbies
Home
And finally, Be selfish enough to track your goal along the way, look at your vision board daily.
Schedule SELFISH monthly check-in to assess your progress and check if you need to adjust any of the goals you set at the beginning of the year.
I already know you are going to crush 2023 and be your best/selfish self.
XOXO, Your favorite selfish girl